Everybody says around you that you have to let go to safeguard yourself from further pain. But the truth is, it’s hard to let go. Though our mind tells us to, but our heart still holds on. It would really take time for acceptance that things has changed and that it’s time to let go. So here’s a meaningful message about letting go I read online. I hope this would enlighten each and everyone of us.
Letting go is a subject all of us want to deny talking about. Nobody with a sound judgment likes to have all the days work listening to some depressing story.
Yet one has to view that it’s a way of refreshing a battered core that in many ways may have reach a threshold of defiance.
Every reason can be put to challenge as you go to this process.
The head may be too reasonable to appreciate it, but the heart takes all the gamble in reasoning. Which put us to some perspective that the mind cannot choose what the heart wants to feel.If this happen then letting go has its dilemma for one very simple reason! HOPE. The hoping part is the one killing all romantics. Loving without hoping is dull.
It’s by far the most powerful tool Pandora’s box have unleash to all would-be lovers.It illuminates a dark pathway of opportunities , with so much extended questions.
There will always be a big gap that cannot be undone. The aches that comes with it, and the effort of holding on to it. The big question arises if one is ready to give up.
Pretty sure letting go is never easy, it takes courage and an unbelievable amount of sacrifice.Knowing that after doing it, you’ll probably hurt yourself more and at the same time the gift of healing by the advances you may gain.
It’s a matter of choice..of weighing the consequences and with this realization comes another level of maturity.There is a time for everything, and letting go has its own duration.The art of letting go is simply a matter of choice and emerging from the experience though maybe broken, BUT full of undying hope and picking up the lessons learned.
It is a constant cycle evolving due to different circumstances that comes with every single human being .With every pain you are being put into a corner wherein you cannot seem to find an exit, and once you do, you let go. tears, sadness and heart aches in the meantime.
And when you are ready, you embrace the future and look forward to a new beginning.
*Photo credit to TheMadScientist of deviantart.
