It is rude for people to meddle with other couple’s problems, especially when it is about the couple’s relationship. Confidants neither don’t have the right to meddle and to criticize the other party on why the relationship didn’t work. Friends are there to listen and not to judge.

There is this girl who has a romantic interest in a particular guy. This guy got hurt from his long time girlfriend and seeks comfort and shares his concerns with this girl friend. The girl friend knew all about the couple’s problem. The girlfriend on the other hand, tried hard to reconcile with the guy even if it meant being desperate and low. After several months, even after the break up, the ex couple still remained their lines of communication open. This got the girl friend pissed and started making personal attacks on the ex girlfriend online.

With the scenario above, does the girl friend had any right to meddle with the ex couple’s problem? Whatever problem this couple had, she should stay away from it. She doesn’t have any right or whatsoever to judge the ex girlfriend, or to even annoy her  and make her jealous because in the first place, the girl friend never had him as her boyfriend.