Archive for November, 2009

Nov 30

Is It Really Necessary?

After breaking up and not communicating for months, is it really necessary for the other party to tell his/her ex that he’s going to search for someone who can love him unconditionally? Out of the blue, after not hearing from each other, you suddenly heard him/her say this. I find it stupid and irrelevant. I mean, what’s the point? You have already broken up and of course you both knew this is possible to happen. That perhaps one of you may find and look for a new love.

Is this just another way of hurting you, getting your attention or perhaps the fact that it’s really over between you two. What do you think?

Comments Off
comments

Nov 05

To Greet or Not To Greet…

After breaking up, is it considered ethical to greet your ex on his/her birthday? Even if you still have grudges in him/her?

You might think that with greeting your ex, you are giving him an impression that you still like him/her and wants him/her back. With that in mind, you want to avoid that connotion thus thinking that it’s better not to greet. But will your ex think that it seemed you don’t care at all? Thinking that it seemed like you two didn’t have any history at all?

Hmm…just a thought.

1
comments