It is right to say that we are blessed to have a life. In living, we encounter a lot of things. Things that made us who we are right now. Life maybe hard but it is full of choices, it never runs out. By being a rational being, we have the capacity to decide and to choose what our choices would be. It is where our future depends, our choices. God only gives us the path on His will, but it is our choice to take His path or not. Therefore ask for His discernment.