It was the first time I watched “Pilipinas Got Talent” last night. They had these performers from Cebu and among the participants, the “Goldies and Goodies” among their late 40s to their 60s danced to the tune of “Single Ladies”. They were cute! And they danced gracefully. The audience as well as the judges gave them a standing ovation for a job well done. They were an inspiration to all of us, hoping that when we reached their age, we could still dance like they could. In fairness to them, I don’t think they would need whatever best weight loss supplement in the market to be physically fit. Because they already are.
Category: women
Nov
05
To Greet or Not To Greet…
After breaking up, is it considered ethical to greet your ex on his/her birthday? Even if you still have grudges in him/her?
You might think that with greeting your ex, you are giving him an impression that you still like him/her and wants him/her back. With that in mind, you want to avoid that connotion thus thinking that it’s better not to greet. But will your ex think that it seemed you don’t care at all? Thinking that it seemed like you two didn’t have any history at all?
Hmm…just a thought.
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Sep
02
Wygant’s Secrets of Women
I guess there are a few number of guys reading this blog. I do hope so since this article is for them. I got this while browsing on a forum online.
David Wygant, a dating coach for 10 years has come up with a guide to help men understand the secrets of women. I don’t basically treat this as a secret, I think it’s more of women’s personality in general. But anyways, I believe there are some guys who are confused on how women thinks and how they can praise and please women without going overboard. So here’s how men can deal with that.
1. All women like surprises; women believe they should be surprised at least once a month.
2. All women have fantasies. A man should take the time to find out her fantasy.
3. Women want a man to “be sensitive yet fight for them” be sensitive yet fight for them if they needed to.
4. Women want a man to be gentle and rough at the same time.
5. Women want to be told they’re beautiful, then after a time told they’re sexy.
6. Women want their man to notice when another man tries to pick them up, but refrain from jealousy.
7. Women will alter their appearance with a new hairstyle or buy something skimpy for themselves, not a man.
8. A woman will groom herself that day if there is a chance for her to meet someone that night.
9. Women believe in the fairytale and will look at most men in the first 30 seconds as if they could be the prince they have been looking for.
10. If a woman really likes a man, she will spend all day trying to look good for him and still not feel perfect, yet at times she willnot be made up and feel perfect.
*Photo credited to physcobunneh of deviantart.
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Aug
17
Soulmates
Do you believe in soulmates? How do you know who your soulmate is? Here’s what I read about soulmates I found online. Have you found yours?
“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.
A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.
A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master”
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Jul
05
Be In Control
Here’s an interesting post I found in facebook about men. I think this post has a sense in it that women should take into consideration in dealing with men. We should be more in control of ourselves and shouldn’t be under control of someone else especially with men. And no, I’m not a man hater. Haha.
- If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
- If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
- Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
- Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
- Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
- Slower is better.
- Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
- If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”.
- A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle.
- If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
- Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.”
- You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
- The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
- Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
- He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
- Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
- Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
- If something bothers you, speak up.
- Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
- You cannot change a man’s behavior.
- Change comes from within.
- Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…even if he has more education or in a better job.
- Do not make him into a quasi-god.
- He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
- Never let a man define who you are.
- Never borrow someone else’s man.
- If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
- A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
- All men are NOT dogs.
- You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is a two way street.
- You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage…
- Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
- You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…
- a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals…
- look for someone complimentary…
- not supplementary.
- Dating is fun…
- even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
- Make him miss you sometimes…
- when a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him – he takes it for granted.
- Never move into his mother’s house.
- Never co-sign for a man.
- Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.
- Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other women and men (just so they know)…
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Jun
07
They say women mostly doesn’t mean what they say. Men often find this annoying or even confusing. To help out men, here’s a few tips on how to decode women’s use of words and what they really mean…
Decoding Women’s Words
They say women mostly doesn’t mean what they say. Men often find this annoying or even confusing. To help out men, here’s a few tips on how to decode women’s use of words and what they really mean…
(1) Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.
(2) Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.
(3) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.
(4) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don’t Do It!
(5) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)
(6) That’s Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That’s okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.
(7) Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you’re welcome. (I want to add in a clause here – This is true, unless she says ‘Thanks a lot’ – that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say ‘you’re welcome’ . that will bring on a ‘whatever’).
(8) Whatever: Is a woman’s way of saying F– YOU!
(9) Don’t worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking ‘What’s wrong?’ For the woman’s response refer to # 3.
*Content credits to Suzette Gin of Multiply.
*Photo credit to DragonLarme of deviantart.
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Mushy Site. Something to ponder on. Works of a bored lass. :p
Verse of the Day- Matthew 5:14,16“You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.” […]
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